big beautiful woman
An overweight or obese
woman who identifies herself as such, and (apparently) is OK with the XXXL label on her clothes.
Eclairs, cheesecake and lard? Bring it on, baby! Jocularity aside, the war on obesity is lost when the troops happily embrace the firing squad. Not every fat chick (image of Penelope Poundsworth) is willing (or able) to stand up and be counted as a BBW. The male counterpart is big handsome man.